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| What keeps you single and waiting? |
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Searching for Ms. or Mr. perfect will keep you single forever,
because there is no such thing
as perfect life partner.
Compatibility is the key to a lasting relationship and most
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thing is being persistent in finding a life partner. |
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| 1. Expecting a prince charming or a princess will keep you single: |
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Some people love to fantasize and expect they will meet a gorgeous man or a beautiful
perfect woman. You need to look at yourself and really assess and think what you have
to offer. These handsome men and gorgeous women could be high maintenance and
narcissistic. Can you put up with that? Lets be practical and live in the real world
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find someone who complements us in every way. |
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| 2. Being pretentious keeps you single |
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Being arrogant, thinking you are better than everyone, keeps you single. No one is
perfect, we live in this world with our imperfections. It will make you look unattractive
and is definitely a bad characteristic to have when you want to attract people in your life. |
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| 3. Being busy will keep you single |
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Everyone is busy these days. You need to take time and concentrate on your love life.
Would you like your life to be mundane and conventional? It is quite simple just learn
to be bit more organized. Give priority to someone special; don't make him/her wait for
your phone call, email or a dinner date. Be spontaneous give your personal life priority.
Recent studies have shown happy people are more productive and perform better
in life. |
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| 4. Acting desperate will keep you single! |
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You have been single for some time fine; it does take a bit of time to find a compatible
life partner. OK, recently you’ve just found someone interesting take it easy; do not get
too emotionally committed. If he or she has not responded to your call or text message
relax and do not over analyze the situation. Remember being desperate will not help
your relationship. |
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| 5. Fear of being rejected keeps you Single! |
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| We are interested in the opposite sex. The fear of being rejected, lack of self confidence
and being afraid of commitment keeps us single. If you are emotionally not prepared to
go forward you will remain single for a long time. |
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| 6. Thinking or talking about ex keeps you single! |
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| You've had a rough experience in the past and you find it difficult to trust anyone.
Or you keep taking about your ex which indicates you have not moved on with your life.
Remember past is past, now is the time to move on and find your love again. |
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| 7. Being judgmental will keep you single! |
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| In your first meeting instead of trying to be judgmental and over critical, try to find
something positive about the person. Yes, life can be good if you stop
expecting and start accepting.
Over the past decade, Studies of Shadi.com members have shown people who do not respond to messages or phone calls, do not put a face to their profile and stay inactive, will remain single for a long time and frustrated. |
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