| Millions of people use matrimonial sites to find their life partners. It’s a norm these days to search for matches on marriage sites. However, there are people who are reluctant to post their details on matrimonial sites. I do not understand the reason behind the hesitation. Yet, there are so many men and women, their biological clock ticking and still standing on the sidewalk. Unless, you do not put some effort you know very well that there is no prince charming or princess that is going to knock on your door. What do you do about it? Read the suggestions and see if they make some sense to you.
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| First, you go to shadi.com post your profile with your details. Write a reputable profile to let others know about you. A lot of people just write “ Doing business, looking for beautiful fair girl, laid back person contact me”. You are looking for your life partner and you get back what you put in. A well thought out profile will get you more feedback and replies. Here is what you need to do to let members know what you bring to the table. For example your line of work be it any profession. How long have you been working, and if you own a business do you share this business, is it a family business. I am not implying you tell them the address of your business but please provide some relevant details. Building trust is important for any relationship. |
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| Second, upload few recent good photographs. In your lifetime you must have shown your face to thousands of people. Why not on shadi.com? Is there some kind of taboo not to include photographs on your profile. Picture will get you 20 times more responses. Is there anything
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| Third, you spend fortunes on your college education,travels, and other expeditions in your life. How about taking a paid membership on shadi.com. In my experience paid members are more serious and committed members. They end up more likely to get happily married. Don't be the type who posts profile and waits for others to respond or just likes to browse profiles showing no intention of contacting. |
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| Fourth, it's a common phenomenon for women to wait for responses some men also have the tendency. Be proactive, and take the positive initiative be the first one to communicate by writing personal emails,contacting members by phone. A member of shadi.com should justify his/her presence on the site, otherwise you are wasting the most precious commodity your time. |
I do not think any other matrimonial except shadi.com would offer you solid advice. Most of them paint a glorious picture “Millions of Profiles and thousands get married every day” and post fake photographs of cheesy wedding pictures every day.
Do not fall for such websites! |
| Think and understand what is best for you. |
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| Matchmaker for shadi.com |
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