Adopting rituals of local flavor- American rites or Australian rites
South East Asian weddings are different
from their western counterparts. When a couple of different inter-faith
is exchanging wedding vows it is not possible to follow the customs of only one culture. Rituals from the host country can be incorporated to
make the wedding unusual and more memorable. After all even if the rituals are diverse the meaning of wedding is the same all over the
world. It is bringing two sweat hearts closer to one another.Despite traditions varying across ethnicity, language and region,
traditional wedding are structured in similar manner with pre and post wedding ceremonies. If the wedding
is taking place abroad, what more fun if some local flavor of that
country is also added. It will only make the entire event memorable. For
example in countries like America and Australia where many S E Asians
live, work and marry there are few local options for the bridal couple
to adopt. Use of bride maidens, use of gown instead of ethnic apparel
and cuisine can be adopted. It would be a perfect setting for a
fairytale wedding.
Traditionally, wedding ceremonies in Australia end
with the couple exchanging rings – a circular ring with no end and no
beginning symbolizing an everlasting relationship – and the traditional
wedding kiss to seal the pact. In many south Asian weddings, the pair
exchanges rings and kiss – just like its Australian counterpart. Get to
know some local customs and adopt them in the event. Even as a mark of
respect for the place.